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The new child heals the old child
Serbian Love is priceless, but can it still become a commodity? Often, unloved children have a lot of money, yet they can't purchase it. Perhaps it isn't something that can be bought? We have become entangled in a spider's web of searching for love, not knowing how to replace it and with what. We have started to fear our hildren. Initially, we fear our inner child, so we keep it asleep.. It's better to let it rest because if it awakens, we're afraid of what we might discover
Bo:)ana
Jan 6, 2025


Jealousy is not an act of love but a confirmation of insecurity
Serbia n Although the term "jealousy" is often associated with love, it may not truly encapsulate its essence. Many individuals link jealousy to love because it can evoke feelings of importance and value within a relationship. A small dose feels good, as it shows interest in the relationship; however, too much can lead to possession rather than love. Individuals who feel compelled to control and monitor another person's every step often do so to mask their own insecurities
Bo:)ana
Aug 11, 2024


Creating together
Serbian Anticipating the perfect outcome of love has left us disillusioned. Our expectations have been disregarded. We are waiting for the perfect person, career, trip, life in general and this leads us to a disease called love deficit, and the side effect is egocentrism. Egocentrism kills the love of co-creation. We have fallen ill by taking shortcuts to fulfill our imagined list of unmet dreams. We aim for perfection in our desires, but instead, we should aim for the "
Bo:)ana
Jun 23, 2024


Don't look away...
Serbian Don't look away when you see them. Do not change the television channel when you hear them. Don't turn the page when you read about them in the newspaper. Don't block your emotions when you see their tears and hear their sobs. Don't change the subject when you start talking about painful one. Don't feel ill at ease when you meet them. They are just parents like you now or you tomorrow. Until yesterday, they were what you are now or you will be tomorrow. T heir lives m
Bo:)ana
May 2, 2024


The pain of being accepted by others and the pain of accepting yourself
Serbian On the path of self-knowledge and the desire to be an example, we will often encounter thorny paths, questions, stumbles, doubts, abysses and feel that we are in a vicious circle. Constantly some beginning towards what seems to us already answered questions. However, having an answer without applying it is the same as listening and not hearing. There is the pain we feel when we follow our soul and are not accepted by others or the pain we feel because we betray our so
Bo:)ana
May 2, 2024


Missing of the flaws
Serbian Where have life's charming quirks and the joyful expressions on our faces disappeared to? Where are those features that, in the rush of falling in love, transform imperfection into perfection? Have the flaws that shape our unique selves been hidden away? Might there be undiscovered virtues beneath those distant, cold gazes? Why has the transparency of social networks stolen the uniqueness of the soul? Do we all yearn for days gone by, or for the people who gave those
Bo:)ana
Feb 3, 2024


The capacity to rejoice in other people's happiness
Serbian Lung capacity is increased by proper breathing. If we breathe improperly, then we do not have the capacity to receive a certain dose of oxygen that allows us to have normal functioning of the mind, proper direction of thoughts, good sleep, concentration, memory, focus and energy. In order to breathe properly, we need to learn it. With the breathing technique, we affirm that lung capacity enables health, calming the nervous system and harmony between body and mind. If
Bo:)ana
Jan 28, 2024


The joy of the first experience
Serbian When we long for something and work towards achieving it, we often feel as thrilled as a child doing their first forward and backward roll. We don't remember many of our first experiences, but there are even more that are not so distant in the past, so we somehow quickly forget them. The joy of that moment oftentimes passes like a gulp of water down the throat after a quenched thirst. We waited and wanted so much, and then we forget how thirsty we r
Bo:)ana
Jan 7, 2024


The ego tries to shape our children through unfulfilled dreams and traumas
Serbian We possess numerous visions, dreams, desires, and ideas, yet we often lack the discipline, courage, and perseverance needed to realize them. As I began to delve deeper into the analysis of my being, awareness expanded as did knowledge. It is painful to begin working on and correcting things within yourself, but it is even more painful to witness them in an environment that unknowingly perpetuates harmful patterns. The first prerequisite for stopping the chain of ego
Bo:)ana
Jan 2, 2024


You owe your children a happy marriage
Serbian When you choose the person you want to spend your life with, you also participate in choosing your child's partner. The kind of example you set for your child in the house is the kind of example it will follow. Some children are in more favorable circumstances, allowing them to resist a bad model from the start, but most follow the path presented to them as a guideline. By getting married, you start building something with the fore knowledge that it won't be easy, but
Bo:)ana
Nov 6, 2023


A little herald of joy
Serbian When we say that we are proud parents, it often means that we have led the child on the right path. What is the right path, and how to be a good parent if we are not good either? Have we ever asked ourselves, are we really feeling ok? What does it mean to be ok? It is a challenge to lead yourself on the right path and even more challenging to lead someone else. The problem is that we are often not ready, and as a society even more unprepared. Then the parent struggles
Bo:)ana
Oct 5, 2023


Just to remind you that I love you
Serbian I love your smile, your imperfect nose. Your deep gaze that looks for beauty in the scenes of life and eyes that smile while looking at those who are not so joyful. I love them even, when it can't see well and are crying, they are beautiful again. I love your cheerful face very much, which tries to nurture that joy every day. Your quick walk that is something between walking and flying. It often feels like you're levitating. I love your laughter, your wrinkles caused
Bo:)ana
Sep 30, 2023


Get over yourself
Serbian Whenever you feel embarrassed, get over your shame. Whenever you make a mistake, get over your perfectionism. Whenever you say something "stupid", smile and get over your hurt ego. Whenever you feel lonely, get over your victim model and call the people around you, they are there for you. Whenever you feel discouraged, remind yourself of all the difficulties you have overcome. Whenever you feel not good enough, remind yourself of your achieved successes, even the smal
Bo:)ana
Sep 30, 2023


How do we know if we are in the right classroom?
Serbian If life is a classroom, then why didn't they teach us to walk in the direction of love, but in the direction of fear? If you have a life, you have a purpose. Energy rises when you follow your purpose, while when you go in the opposite direction its level decreases. When the untapped potential starts to hurt, then suffering arises. Life is learning, but when you walk through it listening to purpose, it builds your potential. Different mentors come into our lives, those
Bo:)ana
Sep 24, 2023


Given hand
Serbian A relationship is a connection. The goal of every relationship is growth. Growth that applies to all spheres of a connection. It becomes improved, we invest in it, and it nurtures us... A person with whom you are starting to build a kind of relationship, friendly, partnership, gives you a hand... You went through a lot of challenges with that person, tried to overcome all the fears that you carry in your suitcase of wishes. Until the moment you entered into that rela
Bo:)ana
Sep 10, 2023


Hurt people, hurt
Serbian The wound said to the injury, "It hurts."The injury shot back, "I'll continue until you're ready to heal." Love went in search of happiness. She did not expect that the road would be so winding and impassable. Striding, she cried out for her trodden path. Love only knows how to love, so why would it hurt? On that way it came across a Stone. The stone seemed very strong in relation to her, somehow unfathomably secretive but with a mysterious attitude, it gave the impre
Bo:)ana
Sep 10, 2023


Rejoicing backwards
Serbian Tomorrow I look forward to what I looked forward to yesterday. I look forward to the smell of morning coffee, a piece of cake, a conversation, a hug, a kiss... Why? Because one day I won't be able to drink that coffee, there won't be anyone to make the cake, I might not have someone to talk to, a hug won't be a priority, and I'll have to wait for a kiss. I will not forget those past joys because I know that one day it will become missing ones. Then the moment I rememb
Bo:)ana
Sep 10, 2023


You're only cheating yourself...
Serbian You have hidden under low motives, you have hidden under the quilt of shy desires. You have hidden in a safe zone, supported by society, afraid to park your heart in a place that is not prescribed by law, by predefined rules. Then in that safe zone you are not happy, you are looking further, you need proof of your worth, you need excitement, you need validation. If you don't get it, you don't exist. When that zone becomes tucked away or unstable you begin to doubt it,
Bo:)ana
Jul 13, 2023


Boys do not cry
Serbian Boys are strong, they don't show emotions. Weak ones cry, tears are not for boys. Only for girls. Boys are cold and reserved. Courage goes without saying. Little soldiers of trained military spirit who carry a shield to defend others. Parents oftentimes teach their children all this, during their childhood, and unconsciously create their roles of fighting wolves. This is why many times boys grow up in a military spirit of emotional restraint. From early childhood, boy
Bo:)ana
Jun 24, 2023


How come...
Serbian How come someone has it, and someone else doesn't. How is it that someone has great knowledge, and someone else has no opportunity to learn. How come some throw food in the trash, while others pray for it. How is it that some people are cold, and others are using clothes for dusting. How is it that for some people shopping is medicine, and for others it's just wishful thinking. How is it that in one country, a child cries for the laughter of another child in different
Bo:)ana
Jun 8, 2023


Please put your diplomas in your drawers...
Serbian Do not boast of signatures and seals, unless you have sealed someone's heart with happiness. Don't wave your paper as you climb the ladder of egoism. It's okay just to have it. From those heights, the view is better only for the ego, the horizon certainly exists. Don't put your nose into the clouds, when a person passes by you, holding a trash can because they didn't have the opportunity to get that same paper. Garbage has many forms, words, actions, thoughts, vanity,
Bo:)ana
Jun 2, 2023


Smell of nostalgia...
Serbian Emotions and moments of experienced memories. When I take a biscuit, dip it in tea and press it to my lips, I remember my grandparents and the time I spent with them in the countryside, often sitting and listening tirelessly to their stories. These are moments of carefree play, joy, new learning and discovery of life. Care was then left to someone else. In those moments, I was not aware of how much I would miss jumping in the meadow, harmlessly climbing the trees, lyi
Bo:)ana
May 7, 2023


Death is beautiful
Serbian It sounds paradoxical, unpleasant and somewhat irritating. The ideal time for leaving the body does not exist, so for some it is now, while I am writing this text, for someone tomorrow. Many still have a few years left, while some will reach old age. Physical existence and the body in itself carries anxiety, fears, adopted patterns, the burden of other people's wishes and expectations. There is a lot of pain, egoism, vanity, jealousy, envy, sadness, suffering and ofte
Bo:)ana
Apr 17, 2023


On the other side of the rainbow...
On the other side of the rainbow lies infinity. There are no borders, there is hidden love that whispers to you: Do what you love because then your mind will love you more. Listen to your heart because it is a mentor for love. Listen to your mind, but only if you have nourished your brain properly, beforehand. Follow your intuition, it is the conductor of all organs. Thank to ratio for all the warnings. Send a kiss to your memory because it knows how to remind you of those go
Bo:)ana
Apr 17, 2023
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