How do we know if we are in the right classroom?

Serbian

If life is a classroom, then why didn't they teach us to walk in the direction of love, but in the direction of fear?

If you have a life, you have a purpose.

Energy rises when you follow your purpose, while when you go in the opposite direction its level decreases. When the untapped potential starts to hurt, then suffering arises. Life is learning, but when you walk through it listening to purpose, it builds your potential. Different mentors come into our lives, those who teach us in an easier or more difficult way. Each has its own methodology.

Suffering arises when we choose a dream that does not belong to us.

If you follow other people's dreams, then you feel that you have betrayed yourself.

Feeling mentally exhausted and tired are two different feelings. Being tired is one thing and feeling mentally exhausted is something else. If you lose yourself, then you betray yourself. Then anxiety sets in. An environment that teaches us how to love ourselves more, and value our potential is a sign that we are in the right classroom.

When it comes to any sphere of life, we know that we should stay there and that we should build that relationship, if we grow in it. If that person or environment encourages us to be better, to discover what makes us happy, it may teach us, direct us sometimes, but always encourage us. If that relationship is only going in one direction, then it's time to change direction. You can be the most beautiful person in the world, with great values, enormous potential, intelligence and nobility, but if you are surrounded by people who do not have the capacity to recognize and receive that quality potential, it will be lost.

In situations when someone hurts you directly or indirectly, and you continue to participate in that pain and do not have the courage to oppose, due to the great impact of lack of love for yourself, remember that the more you suffer, the more you hurt your soul. Then you become the same as that other person, and in the hopelessness of despair you continue to hurt yourself, and become an accomplice. You feel bad again because you betrayed yourself.

When you betray yourself in a love relationship, you feel safe but not good enough without that person. That person then becomes the mortar for the broken part of the foundation and not the extra floor of the house. If you have a good foundation, you are building a stable house but you can also live on the ground floor. If the foundation is not strong, you need someone to hold it, otherwise the house would collapse.

When you betray yourself in a business environment, the potential is suffocated, it stagnates, it has to adapt in a pot where your soil does not fit. Somehow there is too much of it, and no way to adapt. Then the soil tries to shape itself according to the pot, but after that attempt there is less of it, it disappears and the plant withers because it is not fed and watered enough, the only thing that survives is the pot.

When you betray yourself, your mirror is covered with a curtain that does not allow you to see the beauty of life. You are hidden behind the scenes. Observing and not participating.

The soul does not like acting, the purpose likes courage and the potential demands consistency.

When we protect our purpose, it also protects us, because other people will always benefit more from our potential than ourselves.

That is why we are obliged to follow it.